Guest Post: To Dance With You Again by Elena Hernandez
A few years ago I had the honor of being asked to go to Mexico to teach photography. The other artists invited were Oscar & Jessica Lozoya, Armando Chacon, and John Tanguma. We were asked to go to the border town of Nuevo Laredo. We were also told there was a war going on between the drug lords and the corrupt police/politicians of both sides of the border. (huh? a war? you want me to teach during a gun fight?) Yes…We went there even though there were people being killed everyday in this little border town over drugs and politics. What was even more amazing: there were students who were willing to travel through this war zone. We were limited to staying at the hotel to teach those who attended the seminar, for fear of gang reprisals in the area.
One night, over a glass of wine….He told me a little bit about himself. He was a professional photographer who was a pilot in the war. He was married to his lovely wife for over 50 years and she gave him nine children. He lost her 4 years ago and they use to be ballroom dance champions. That is what he missed the most, dancing. I immediately had a vision how I wanted to photograph him. I could visualize him in a bistro type setting drinking a glass of wine, smoking his cigarette reminiscing over the photograph of his wife. In the background, I wanted to have a couple dancing a tango. They represented to me, Vincente and his wife dancing when they were young. I wanted this portrait to portray his story and his love. In the beginning I was just going to do a portrait of an elderly man, but once I got to know the MAN, I had to do a portrait that told his story.
As I was photographing Mr. Medina I was also telling the class what I was doing and waiting for the interpreter to repeat what I said. I noticed that while I was shooting, Vincente was speaking to the photograph of his wife, which added to the poignant expression he had.

He walked up to the front of the class…sat down on a stool, bowed his head and began to quote a poem that was his wife’s favorite. My Spanish is rusty, but I could follow what he was saying. At first he was speaking in a low tone but he then got more and more passionate about this poem as he was reciting it. Everyone in the room was crying. When he finished the poem the class gave him a standing ovation. Wiping my tears, I thanked him. There was nothing I could have said to top that. He paused, came up to me and took my hand. He said he was so moved by the photograph that he wanted to share with the students what he was saying as I was photographing him & that he was so grateful for the experience.
I wanted to share this with you in this blog, because even though I was there to teach…I learned a valuable lesson as well. If you get to know your subjects and listen to them before you set up your camera, you just might create a session that’s not only more intimate for your client, but will tap into your imagination and find new ways to be creative.
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This post has 11 comments
January 11th, 2010
I love that image, very powerful and beautiful.
January 11th, 2010
What a great story and a great photographer. This photograph tells a story that we can all connect to and can instantly empathize. I consider Elena a great friend and teacher. Awesome story!!!!
January 12th, 2010
Elena very well written such a great story and I’m glad I can see the picture you spoke of now. What a wonderful moment to share with a client. We could use a few more gems like you! Beautifully done!
January 12th, 2010
Beautiful story and an important lesson. The image is breathtaking. Thank you for sharing
January 14th, 2010
Thank you for your kind comments! It was a privilege to be given a chance to get to know Mr. Medina. What i left out of the story…his late wife’s name was Elena,and he was just diagnosed with cancer.
Art is forever.
January 17th, 2010
I loved your story Elena. What a touching message!
January 19th, 2010
A very beautiful story filled with such heart and knowledge. Thank you so much for sharing what you felt and the reasons for such a stunning photograph!
May 15th, 2011
Elena, so wonderful and well written my friend. It brught tears to my eyes, I could visualize this man ready the poem. The design,composition and most of all the story behind the image is simply beautiful. I will remember this image for as long as I live. The man resembles my father being from Texas the hat says it all, he wore the same style of hat. God bless you mi amiga. Thank you for making my morning.
May 15th, 2011
ELENITA!!!!!!!!! I am inspired by you as a photographer, a friend, and yes a fellow Latina! This story was spot on what photographing people is all about! Capturing a person’s image is one thing, but capturing their soul is a whole other ball park!
I am not surprised that you traveled to Mexico under the circumstances, and I remember you telling me about this workshop. It was well worth the sacrifice and you touched so many lives, and most importantly, Mr. Medina’s.
Thank you for sharing this beautiful story with us, again, thank you for also being an inspiration and such a good amiga to me!
I can’t wait to see you!
May 15th, 2011
Wow. Just wow! Beautiful words, beautiful image. Thank you.
May 16th, 2011
Hi Elena,
Thank you for sharing this amazing story and image.
Thank you again for your insight into “listening”
Cheryl Fleming Photography
I found you by way of the fantastic Gokhan!